Misconcepts 022 - Most Dreams Die in the Research Phase


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Most Dreams Die in the Research Phase

5th December 2025 | misconcepts.org


I spent months researching “the best” newsletter distribution platform before writing a single newsletter. I told myself I just needed a little bit more information before I was ready to begin.

And I’ve done this for countless projects. The result? Lots of carefully crafted plans. Very little actual results.

Sound familiar?

Here’s what I’ve learned: The biggest obstacle between us and our goals isn’t lack of knowledge or skill. It’s the elaborate story we tell ourselves about why we’re not quite ready yet.

When Research Becomes Refuge

Research feels different from scrolling social media because it feels productive. We’re learning. We’re planning. We’re preparing.

But honestly? We’re hiding.

It’s a well-decorated excuse to avoid the discomfort of discovering our own shortcomings.

Research feels safe, starting feels risky. So we stay in preparation mode, convincing ourselves that we need just a bit more information.

This is how years disappear and regrets are born.


The Permission I Didn't Know I Needed

The paralysis comes from believing you need all the answers on day one. But here's the reality: you never will.

Your starting point matters far less than your willingness and ability to error-correct after each attempt.

As Zig Ziglar put it:

"You don't have to be great to start, but you have to start to be great."

Every cycle of attempting and error-correcting closes the gap between where you are and where you want to be. Every iteration makes you slightly wiser.

The math is simple: Starting imperfectly and iterating gives you a compounding rate above zero. But if you never start, your compounding rate is guaranteed to be zero.

Charlie Munger observed:

“I constantly see people rise in life who are not the smartest, sometimes not even the most diligent, but they are learning machines. They go to bed every night a little wiser than they were when they got up.”

Your Move

The gap between planning and doing is where dreams go to die – but it's also where growth begins.

What will you start this week, even if you're not ready?

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